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The Secret To Seducing Women: Describe Her Feelings
Seduction is the art of making a woman to feel good so that she will associate these positive emotions and feelings with you. This is why when we flirt with a woman, we compliment her, try to make her smile and laugh, and try our best to act interested in whatever she says.
The secret to seducing women then is to have her thinking romantic thoughts and associating these positive feelings with you. A powerful technique to do this effectively is by describing her feelings and emotions for her.
First, the psychology behind this technique
All of us have encountered situations where a buddy described a disgusting or awkward incident. The more we listen, the clearer the image of the incident forms in your mind.
In most cases, a detailed description will lead you to feel nearly the same feelings the other person felt when the experience occurred. You may start to feel anxious, worried, or disgusted, depending on what experience is being described.
Remember when your friend described puking outside of a bar in gory, vivid detail while you were eating a burrito? Your burrito probably started looking like barf and started to taste very unappetizing. You end up telling him to shut up or give up on your burrito. This is due to a simple principle: that to describe a feeling to a person makes them experience that feeling.
To be the Don Juan of seducing women, take advantage of this principle.
If you want to seduce women, you must describe the feelings you want her to have in lush and intimate detail. If you want to get her to a certain state of mind, describe these feelings to her.
If you want her to have feelings of attraction, romance, and love, just describe these feelings to her in all its glorious detail. And as you describe these feelings, she'll inevitably start to have them.
The principle is simple: when someone describes something to you, you must imagine it and draw it within your mind to understand what that person is talking about.
If somebody tells you, "DON"T THINK OF A PINK, FLYING ELEPHANT!" The first thing that goes through your brain is a chubby pink elephant with little angel wings, is it not ?
If you are brain dead and can not imagine a pink, flying elephant, you will not understand what the person is saying.
The same thing happens when you describe feelings of romance to a woman. Regardless of how she feels about you, if you talk about romance and all the good feelings associated with it, she must feel that feeling to even understand what your are saying.
Seducing women by describing her feelings: Case study one
You walk into a cafe and see a lovely girl behind the counter.
You say: "Hey coffee goddess, you must feel so special with all these people coming to worship your coffee. You must feel really good serving your worshipers this exquisite nectar of the gods!
What this will do: As you describe feelings of specialness to her, she must imagine these feelings of specialness and actually feel it to understand what you are talking about. And what you are talking about is centered around feel-good emotions and compliments that lead her to see you as a source of positive reinforcement.
So as she hears your words and feels special while looking at you, she will start to connect those special feelings with your visits to her cafe and ultimately, to you. This is the advanced pickup artist technique called: "Anchoring."
Drawing inspiration from poets and casanovas.
If you happen to come across and read any romantic poetry, you'll see that it's just descriptions of romantic, loving feelings. Romance novels are much the same way. They are just a long description of romantic feelings.
Why do women love these things? It is because the magic words embedded in its pages make the woman feel those special feelings of love and romance.
Furthermore, why do you think poets are experts of seduction? It is because they are masters of using their words to generate feelings of love, romance, and arousal.
So if you also want to be a master at seducing women, you have to put on your chest-exposing Don Juan shirt and learn how to use romantic words to conjure up romantic feelings within her.
So pick up a poetry book, or that dirty romance novel with Fabio on the cover, and learn how the masters of seduction use the secret magic of feeling-invoking words to seduce women.
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